Thursday, May 15, 2008

We are not there yet

Just another quote that is very relevant for today, from Olara Otunnu, the U.N. special representative on children and armed conflict, in 2004.

…the view is still that the suffering and victimization of children in situations of conflict is tragic, it is sad, it is unfortunate, but terrible things happen in war. We've got to shift from that level of awareness to one of outright repudiation in which we'll say, 'War might be likely and bad and terrible, but we simply can't accept that these things are done to our children in situations of conflict. We are not yet there.

Past treasure 3

This is a speech from a few years ago, in my homeland of Aotearoa New Zealand. Since then Section 59 of the Crimes Act has been amended so that the statutory defence of correction is no longer available to parents accused of child assault. The speech complements my Bloggers Unite post below. NOTE that the statistic about child abuse deaths in Sweden is from an independent researcher and is significantly lower than the child maltreatment deaths recorded in Swedish national statistics.

A World Fit for Children

Bloggers Unite
Each and every child on our planet deserves to enjoy the same rights - from birth and on into adulthood - no matter where they are born, who their parents are, what abilities or limitations they live with. They have the first call on our resources. They each have the right to a family and an identity, to love and care, to safe warm homes and places to play, to protection from harm, to education for life in a peaceful world, to health and health care.

Above all it is their voices that should guide decision making in our world.

Data and statistics are things I deal with every day, and there is a certain detachment from reality and individuals when using concepts like mortality rates and intentional assault. It can be overwhelming to constantly think of the individual griefs and pains and losses that the numbers represent. But some things go straight to the heart. A routine report on causes of death shows that WAR is one of the major causes of death for CHILDREN in our world. Not for soldiers, not for Presidents or Prime Ministers or bankers or bureaucrats. But for CHILDREN it is up there in the top 20 causes of death in both high and middle-low income countries.

I couldn't and cannot detach from that.

The movie Kandahar is backed by scientific enquiry that confirms that children and women are at increased risk of serious injury from instruments of war. And confirms the absolute evil that cluster bombs are manufactured to be ATTRACTIVE to children.

I agree with Brian McLaren's analysis that these problems are underpinned by a malfunctioning security system, that invests in destruction and not in life. I need to participate in a deep shift so that everything WILL change. This new YouTube video of Brian's is just brilliant for Bloggers Unite day. Let us all be atheists to forces that kill so many of our precious children, let us not detach from any one of the ten million who die unnecessarily each year, let us unite to persuade investment in things that matter and not things that destroy.

My baby steps involve checking the origin of products like coffee and chocolate, investing in sustainable aid and development approaches, working to persuade my local congregation to work in partnership projects and not to ship masses of 'stuff' to 'the poor' in charity-based initiatives and proselytising operations.

And above all to listen to our children. Their wisdom can guide us to create a world that is fit for them. "We want a world fit for children, because a world fit for us is a world fit for everyone." (Do read this whole link if you have time. It is wisdom we need to hear).

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A prayer for Palm Sunday. The imagery is from personal experience - the week before we stood in our backyard and watched three blue butterflies reach the top of the Camphor Laurel tree - must be 20 metres at least tall. The Sunday before I was swimming at Terrigal. And the child image is based on a specific little boy whose face absolutely lights up when his Dad comes into his line of sight. The confession is inspired by Brian McLaren and the assurance of forgiveness is based on The Message version of John's gospel chapter 3 verse 16. This scripture is also alluded to in the prayer:

God of special days and every day

We praise you

We are so blessed to live in the world that you have created

A world that fills us with wonder

When we see butterflies making it to the top of the tallest tree

Tiny fish swimming beside us in the sparkling blue water

The brilliant smile when Dad comes into the child’s line of sight

These remind us that your love and loyalty last forever

You amaze us


Your beloved child Jesus is like you in every way

Yet was born among us and lived on this earth

Showing us what it means to be obedient to you

To challenge and put right what is wrong

Sent to live among us

So that we would know what life really is

That’s how much you love us

Amazing!


Your spirit fills our lives

The life in our every breath

Moving like the wind around and beyond

Filling our hearts with joy

Our minds with music

Our hands with creativity

Helping us to realise your amazing goodness to us


Yet like the crowd in Jerusalem so long ago

We can so easily reject and betray you

Taking from your creation more than earth can bear

Accepting and living within the current world order

Failing to recognise the immense value

of each and every person in our communities


Everything must change, God

We want to be part of that change

We are sorry for the ways we harm your earth

We want to commit to your kingdom

Help us to run to catch up with the mysterious moves of your spirit

To change direction to find where you are leading

To be true followers of Jesus

Who you have made the cornerstone of new life

and raised to the highest place of honour

Our Lord and our God

Amen.


These are the words we can trust – God didn't go to all the trouble of sending Jesus into the world merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again. And so we can have full and meaningful lives, living as God’s forgiven people.

Past treasure 1

A prayer for Epiphany, reflecting on the decision of the 'wise men' to return to their own country by another road, and the wisdom of a four year old - whose immediate response on hearing the gospel of Matthew chapter 2 read aloud was "Mummy - I want Jesus to be the king and not Herod to be the king." The ideas of King and Empire were explored in the teaching on this Sunday (by the brilliant preacher to whom I am married) and a lot of the words in this prayer are taken directly from the gospel for the day. The context of this prayer was St Stephens Sydney, which is located on the same street as Sydney hospital and the State Parliament.

God of other roads

Of worshippers and star-followers

Of seekers and travellers

Of all who journey

In all time and in every place

At this time and in this place

We want Jesus to be the King and not Herod to be the King


We pray for ourselves

The people in this place this morning

As we retrace familiar steps

Or find everything so different

On this first Sunday of a new year

May our hearts be attuned to your heart

Our spirits given life by your Spirit

So that we know deep within us

What it means for Jesus to be the King

How our lives change when we pay him homage


We pray for all making the return journey to work tomorrow

for bankers and bureaucrats and politicians

nurses and strategists and retail therapists

and the baristas who brew coffee to perfection

Keep us all expectant

With eyes wide open

And minds alert to the possibility

of new perspectives and ways of doing things

So that decisions are guided and informed

By the child in the Bethlehem house

And our allegiance is not diverted

By those who seem to be in control

That in this great city of Sydney

Jesus and not Herod is the King


We pray for those who take us into other worlds

Stretching imagination and taking us beyond ourselves

Through art and literature

Film and performance

For the presenters and participants in the Sydney festival

Challenging us to examine the way we are

And to consider the forces

That compete for the allegiance

of our collective soul and mind to Jesus as King


God who we know in Christ Jesus

Who we meet in the gospel today

In a house with his mother Mary

We pray for our human family

And especially today

For those journeying away from their homelands

To welcome newborn babies or celebrate marriages

To farewell loved ones and settle estates

For migrants seeking a better future

And refugees carrying unspeakable memories

As they escape cruel tyrannical powers

Who like Herod will stop at nothing

To try and stop Jesus being King


We pray for those especially on our hearts and minds this morning


God of other roads

Of worshippers and star-followers

In all time and in every place

At this time and in this place

We pray that you will bring to completion

Our hope for Jesus to be King

In our lives

And the lives of those we love

In the life of our city

Our country

And our world

As we pray in the words Jesus taught us

Our Father in heaven …

Monday, May 12, 2008

I love Coles

You really have to be an Aussie to understand this title, but Coles is one of the major supermarket chains and their generic brand is 'I Love Coles'. And bless their cotton socks - they have just started marketing potatoes as 'mashing potatoes' and 'roasting potatoes'. After years of lumpy mashed potatoes and mushy roast ones - tonight I served up an enormous pot of the very best soft creamy mashed potatoes ever!!! Once I even got a potato book out of the library and carried around a list of types of potato and their uses but I lost the list and it all got a bit complicated. So thank you Coles - I do love you!

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Interesting juxtapositions

Mothers' Day and Pentecost coincide this year. According to my friend Jenny this last happened in 1913 and will not happen again until the year 2228. It also happened in 1818 and will happen again in 2285 (when Easter was/will be even a day earlier than this year). So what a momentous occasion!!?? (one thing you will find about me is that I do love these kind of trivial facts and they will appear on my blog from time to time).

This super-early Easter season has brought other 'co-incidences' that are particularly relevant down-under. Ash Wednesday fell on Waitangi Day - the day when the people of Aotearoa New Zealand remember Te Tiriti or the Treaty signed between Maori and Queen Victoria in 1840. And less than a week later the Prime Minister of Australia, Kevin Rudd, made a formal apology to the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Peoples of this country for actions of the government that tore families apart and deeply wounded communities. The sorry speech was watched by millions nationwide, many workplaces made provision for employees to watch the broadcast, and this Kiwi living in Australia found it extremely moving to see the generous acceptance of the initiative by Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander elders and especially by those most affected by past government intervention.

It seemed so appropriate in the season of Lent, when Christians intentionally focus on Jesus' journey to Jerusalem, that the two nations I identify with marked significant milestones in nationhood and in relationship with indigenous people. Colonisation causes such ongoing pain - and as part of the Anglo tradition I sometimes find it hard to know how to be part of the change that is necessary. I can rejoice though in these miniscule steps to repentance - turning around and challenging the often entrenched presumption of privilege. And I am engaged in developing a professional education activity which may help myself and colleagues to hone our skills in critiquing policy from an indigenous perspective.

And circling back to the start - Mothers' Day and Pentecost. The blog from Sally (on her journey) on exclusivism and Mothering Sunday has helped me enter this 'once-in-a-lifetime' liturgical/social coincidence with eyes open to see things differently. And there have been glimpses of that wonderful Spirit of Godde at work in my world. First at Mothers' Day Mass at my daughter's school. The music was excellent and the students' prayers and reflections demonstrated an inclusive valuing of women in their lives, mothers, and aunties, teachers, grandmothers and sisters and friends. Then in our Uniting Church this morning the liturgist prayed for all who struggle with parenthood, for those for whom this day is painful, and for families missing a loved mother or grandmother.

For me this is the first year without a mother to telephone and it has been a day of juxtapositions. Delighting in the attention from my three wonderful children - all living at home at the moment - and in breakfast out with my husband early in the day. Yet missing my own Mum who died on March 17. Then phoning my sister who is enjoying her first Mothers' Day as a grandmother, and hearing what a special day my niece is having with her precious seven-week-old son. Walking along the Parramatta foreshore gave an opportunity to somehow hold all these experiences and feelings and thoughts together and to treasure them deep within my heart.

Indeed - a day and a season of juxtapositions.

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